disrupted, many women see this not just as “a loss of the relationship, but as something closer to a loss of her own self.”24 In 1929, Virginia Woolf wrote, “It is obvious that the values of women differ very often from the values which have been made by the other sex.… It is the masculine values that prevail.”25 Therein lies a problem that can be particularly acute for Christian women. In much preaching, the “masculine value” of rules and principles prevails over relationships. Yet if Miller is
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